Parents can help to support their children in these areas at home too. For further advise on these areas please speak to Amanda.
Helping your child to develop their moving and handling skills
To encourage children to be physically active, and to help them
learn how to use tools and materials, they need
lots of opportunities to:
●●move around and make big movements using their arms, legs and
whole bodies
●●handle smaller objects to help develop their small muscle control.
You could use the ideas below as starting points to help you to do
this.
Two- to three-year-olds
●●Dancing is a great way to develop coordination skills.
●● Read a story together and act out what is happening – this is also
a good way to develop imagination and
creativity.
●●Poking and pinching playdough or clay helps to strengthen the
fingers, hand and wrist.
●● Jigsaw puzzles and toys that fit together are good ways to develop
hand control.
●●Threading things – pasta shapes, buttons or large beads –
encourages fine finger movements.
●● Helping with simple chores around the home such as sweeping,
tidying up toys, and lifting things develops and
strengthens muscles.
●●Play throwing and catching games that involve big arm movements
strengthen shoulder and arm muscles.
Four- to five-year-olds
●●Help your child to learn how to use simple tools such as scissors –
practice makes perfect.
●●Helping with household tasks such as setting the table builds
coordination and control.
●●Draw outdoors with chalks or make patterns in the mud with a
stick.
●●Use a squeezy bottle filled with water to shoot at a target or
knock down a skittle.
●●Make a place to dig outside where children can develop muscle
control and coordination.
●●Bikes and scooters are an exciting way to get lots of vigorous
exercise.
●●Try to make sure your child
is physically active for at least three hours every day.
Helping your child to manage their feelings and behaviour
To help your child learn how to manage their feelings and
behaviour you will need to provide lots of
opportunities for them to:
●●develop social skills and learn how to manage their feelings
●●understand how to behave as a member of a group.
You could use the ideas below as starting points to help you do
this.
Two- to three-year-olds
●●Be consistent in your approach so your child can understand what
is expected of her in different situations.
●●As far as possible, persuade other family members to follow the
same approach.
●●Find out if your early years setting has any useful ideas about
managing behaviour that you could use.
●● I f your child has a tantrum, try to stay calm. Your child may
feel frightened and they need to see that you are in
control.
●●Use words to express feelings so your child can learn how to put
her feelings into words.
●●When your child plays with other children she will be learning how
to be part of a group.
●● Children learn how to control their emotions as they grow older so
have high expectations, but don’t expect
the impossible.
Four- to five-year-olds
●●Help your child to talk about what makes her happy, sad, angry or
upset.
●●Remember, children learn best when they feel comfortable, safe and
secure.
●●Being tired, hungry, thirsty or bored may have an effect on your
child’s behaviour.
●●Be consistent in how you respond to your child’s behaviour.
●●Value your child as an individual but help her to learn the social
skills she needs to get on well with others.
●●Make sure your child gets enough sleep to recharge his physical
and emotional batteries.
●●Have high expectations, but remember we can’t all be perfect all
the time.
Helping
your child to develop their speaking and listening skills
There are lots of easy ways you can help your child to learn how
to listen and pay attention. These will all help
them to build up the skills they require to talk about what they
need, how they are feeling, and what they are
interested in.
You could use the ideas below as starting points to help you do
this.
Two- to three-year-olds
●●When your child says something, try repeating it back with a
little bit of extra information.
●●Read stories together, or try making up your own stories about
people and places he knows.
●●Help your child to join in conversations with the rest of the
family.
●● Try to be patient and give him enough time to say what he wants to
say.
●●When you are out and about, point out interesting things and name
them.
●● Listen to what your child has to say so he knows it is worth
making the effort to speak.
●●Sing nursery rhymes and songs together. You could include actions
to make it more exciting.
Four- to five-year-olds
●●Read stories together and talk about what is happening.
●●Dressing up and pretending to be someone else is a great
opportunity to make up and tell stories.
●●Playing with toy animals, cars or people encourages children to
make up and tell stories.
●● Talk together about things that happened yesterday and things you
might do tomorrow.
●●When someone speaks to your child, let her answer for herself and
don’t speak for her.
●●Encourage your child to be curious and to ask questions about what
she sees, hears and thinks.
●● Try to respond when your child asks lots of questions, even if it
gets a bit wearing!
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